Rating: ****
Tags: Psychology, General, Self-Help, Personal Growth, Lang:en
Publisher: HarperCollins UK
Added: June 2, 2019
Modified: November 5, 2021
Summary
A smart and funny book by a prominent Harvard
psychologist, which uses groundbreaking research and (often
hilarious) anecdotes to show us why we’re so lousy at
predicting what will make us happy – and what we can do
about it. Most of us spend our lives steering ourselves toward the
best of all possible futures, only to find that tomorrow
rarely turns out as we had expected. Why? As Harvard
psychologist Daniel Gilbert explains, when people try to
imagine what the future will hold, they make some basic and
consistent mistakes. Just as memory plays tricks on us when
we try to look backward in time, so does imagination play
tricks when we try to look forward. Using cutting-edge research, much of it original, Gilbert
shakes, cajoles, persuades, tricks and jokes us into
accepting the fact that happiness is not really what or where
we thought it was. Among the unexpected questions he poses:
Why are conjoined twins no less happy than the general
population? When you go out to eat, is it better to order
your favourite dish every time, or to try something new? If
Ingrid Bergman hadn’t gotten on the plane at the end of
Casablanca, would she and Bogey have been better off?
Smart, witty, accessible and laugh-out-loud funny,
Stumbling on Happiness brilliantly describes
all that science has to tell us about the uniquely human
ability to envision the future, and how likely we are to
enjoy it when we get there. **