Rating: Not rated
Tags: Business & Economics, Decision-Making & Problem Solving, Business Communication, General, Skills, Lang:en
Publisher: Penguin
Added: September 8, 2021
Modified: November 5, 2021
Summary
A former FBI agent shares his simple but powerful toolkit
for assessing who you can trust--and who you can't.After two
decades as a behavior analyst in the FBI, Robin Dreeke knows
a thing or two about sizing people up. He's navigated complex
situations that range from handling Russian spies to
navigating the internal politics at the Bureau. Through that
experience, he was forced to develop a knack for reading
people--their intentions, their capabilities, their desires
and their fears.Dreeke's first book, It's Not All About "Me,"
has become a cult favorite with readers seeking to build
quick rapport with others. His last book, The Code of Trust,
was about how to inspire trust in others as a leader. In
Sizing People Up, Dreeke shares his simple, six-step system
that helps you predict anyone's future behavior based on
their words, goals, patterns of action, and the situation at
hand.Predicting the behavior of others is an urgent need for
anyone whose work involves relationships with others, whether
it's leading an organization, collaborating with a teammate,
or closing a sale. But predictability is not as simple as
good and evil, or truth and fiction. Allies might make a
promise with every intention of keeping it, not realizing
that they will be unable to do so due to some personal
shortcoming. And those seeking to thwart your endeavor may
not realize how reliable their malevolent tells have
become.Dreeke's system is simple, but powerful. For instance,
a colleague might have a strong moral code, but do they
believe your relationship will be long-term? Even the most
upstanding person can betray your trust if they don't see
themselves tied to you or your desired result in the long
term. How can you determine whether someone has both the
skill and will to do what they've said they're going to do?
Behaviors as subtle as how they take notes will reveal their
reliability.Using this book as their manual, readers will be
able to quickly and easily determine who they can trust and
who they can't; who is likely to deliver on promises and who
will disappoint; and when a person is vested in your success
vs when they are actively plotting your demise. With this
knowledge they can confidently embark on anything from a
business venture to a romantic relationship to a covert
operation without the stress of the unknown.